I am happily married to a woman from the Philippines. This blog was created to help others successfully navigate the world of Filipina Dating.

Respect

When you chat with a Filipina online, please be respectful. It’s OK to ask if she’s had boyfriends before.

Maybe it’s even OK to ask questions about her past (if that is important to you).

But please–don’t expect a Filipina to engage you in sexually explicit chats. If that’s what you are after, there are plenty of websites out there which will cater to your cheap thrills. Filipinas go to penpal websites to look for husbands, not perverted hook-ups. Remember, most Filipinas are God-fearing, conservative women.

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Why am I saying this? Because I’ve had more than one Filipina tell me she’s had bad experiences with disrespectful men.

If you are a gentleman, thank you–keep up the chivalrous conduct.

If you are a pervert, please don’t waste a girl’s time and stop giving all us Western men a bad name. Get your freak on elsewhere and leave the penpal websites alone.

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Lonely on Valentines? Find Love in the Philippines

So, are you lonely this Valentine’s Day? Maybe you are looking for love in the wrong country (your own).

I can’t say enough about the beauty and charm of women in the Philippines. Why not give a Filipina a chance? As long as you take things slowly and watch for scams, you have absolutely nothing to lose.

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Who knows–maybe next year you won’t be alone on Valentine’s Day. I can give you no guarantee except this–you won’t find love in the Philippines unless you try.

Filipina Online Dating: How Many Messages will I Get?

The answer, of course, depends on several factors. Your age, your picture, what you say in your profile–all of these affect your attractiveness to women in the Philippines looking for love.

I will tell you this–I get at least a couple of messages a day (usually more), even when I’m not actively searching the site. These are women who found me–all I “did” was keep my membership going. As long as you are on a good, well-known site with plenty of members, you’ll get contacted.

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You won’t be interested in everyone who emails you. But every message is another possibility for love–another step closer to finding love in the Philippines.