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If you are serious about marrying a Filipina, you’ll need to talk to her about money.

Filipino culture is different from Western culture.  Whereas Americans are “rugged individualists,” Filipino families share everything.  They are likely to know how much money each family member makes (possibly including extended family) and they share according to need.

It’s quite common for a young woman to give half of her paycheck (or more) away to care for aged parents, sibling tuition, family medical bills, etc.

Refusing to help her family financially is not an option.  On the other hand, her family may overestimate your wealth and think you will pay all of their living expenses once you are part of the family.

This is why communication is so important.  You’ll need to set some basic guidelines as to how much you can give and legitimate needs vs abuse of your generosity.

Read More: More Thoughts on Money and Sharing

I’m not implying that all Filipinas are housewives (or want to be).  The Philippines ranks high in terms of women’s rights, and currently has a female president.  Women are involved in everything–from the corporate world to government leadership.

But women here are still more family oriented than most of their Western counterparts.  Filipinas still put great value on becoming mothers and wives.  Many decide to stay at home with their children, which is becoming increasingly rare (sadly) in the West.

A Filipina dating website might help you find a wife indirectly. Not everyone who reads your profile/ad will be the type of woman you are looking for. Regardless, they will have friends, relatives, etc. If you make a good impression, a Filipina might just help introduce you to one of her friends.

Use this social networking to your advantage. Everyone you “meet” online can potentially help you meet your future spouse. Let your chat mates know you are open to this.